Saturday, December 23, 2006

Happy Holidays All!

Saturday, December 09, 2006

Who is with me on requiring that the Iowa legislature pass a law saying that local gov'ts can decide to ban smoking in public places? Who is with me in saying Iowa City should have at least one bar that remains non-smoking ALL of the time? Because to my way of thinking, yes, I could just stay home and not go to bars at all because of the health risks and nasty aspects of it. Well, sure, but then when would I get to see my friends? Iowa City should have at least one place that I can go, and sit and have a drink (if I want) or at the very least sit and converse with my friends without having to soak up second hand smoke, and all the horrible icky side effects I get. I am allergic. Seriously allergic to cigarette smoke. If there was an alternative place for my friends to go out downtown, where I could join them without suffering, I probably would. I can't even go and play pool anywhere past nine pm in this town without being exposed to it. I can't go bowling without being exposed to it. So I ask, where is the place that if my friends really want to see ME, they'll come? The vis versa happens often, I go to the bars because this is where my friends hang out when they come home from overseas, and then, I suffer for wanting to spend time catching up with them. Well, screw that. Donnelly's was smoke free, for awhile, and now, they allow smoking after 10 pm, so I can't go there any more. It is frustrating to say the least. I can talk my non-smoking friends into going there with me to hang out, because drink prices are the same as other places too. However, now where will I get people to go who want to go dancing? Donnelly's doesn't have a dance floor. The Mill will have non-smoking events for the back room (yay for wylde nept performing smoke free concerts) which is awesome. I will gladly go there and not subject myself to smelling like an ashtray when i get home, and having to shower immediatly upon my return to my home.
Also, I think it's really rude for people that know of someone's allergies, to continue to smoke right in front of them, or in their face specifically. It would be the same thing as feeding strawberries to someone who is allergic to strawberries. Actually no, that's a little wrong. The person allergic to strawberries can ask and be told strawberries are in the food and then not have to eat it. If I ask a smoker to not smoke around me, and they don't oblige me, what's my course of action? I have to leave the establishment. I'd be fine with just leaving the establishment and going somewhere else, if such a place existed that had the same other amenities sans smoking. It's like telling someone who is a recovering alcoholic that they can not go out to any bar anywhere because there is always going to be drinks served to people around them. Where is their bar that doesn't serve alcoholic drinks, where they can go and not be tempted? Answer is, there isn't. No bar would survive without serving the drinks people want, and that's alcoholic. Sadly, that has become the case with bars for smoking also. No bar in this area can feel as though they do as much business and make as much profit if they don't allow smoking. I understand in some sense the "discrimination" claim that smokers may make if suddenly they can't smoke in a bar, however, what about the discrimination that we feel for not being able to find a place where such activities DON"T occur?
There are two places in Coralville that are non-smoking resturaunts. Mondo's and Sluggers. People, GO THERE!!! Support local establishments that choose to be smoke-free.
And I'm done with the rant for the day. Feel free to tell me your thoughts folks...

Friday, December 08, 2006

If the librarian thing doesn't work, I guess I'd be happy being a professional pet and house sitter. Right now I am caring for 3 dogs and a cat. The dogs are a big black sweetheart named Isabelle, a cute Bischon Frieze named Ferdinand and Sweet Pea, a little something or other dog..plus Mishka the old man kitty. It is fun. I think animals hold a special comforting ability for the people in their lives. They all have such special personalities also. They seem to know when you're feeling down and they like attention (well who doesn't). Plus pet sitting in home is nice for the animals because they don't have to be kennelled that way. It's less disruptive to their standard routine. And they get mor playtime with me because I don;t see them often. :)

Thursday, November 30, 2006

Good luck to all my friends taking finals, giving presentations, writing papers and embarking on the end to another semester. Good luck also to everyone else out there in your endeavors, because, well, sometimes a general wish of good luck can go a long way.

Monday, November 27, 2006

Deck the Halls

Okay, so this will be a random smattering (as most of my posts seem to be)

** Happy Thanksgiving ( a day or so late) to everyone in the blogosphere

** Thanksgiving for me was spent partly in Chicago and partly in IC. I drove to Naperville on Wednesday afternoon (after joyfully discovering I didn't have to find a sub for Wednesday night's library shift because we closed the doors at 5pm that night) The drive was crowded, especially on I-80, and for a change, there was significant traffic on I-88 also. My mistake though, was that the Naperville Road exit on 88 was closed, so I had to take Illinois Hwy 59 partway to get to Erik's. This did not make me very happy in the end. At the beginning it was fine because I hadn't explored the outskirts area, but, to my dismay, this area was mostly shops and resturaunts, and with a holiday fast approaching, there was SOOO much stop and go traffic. I did discover a DSW shoes which may warrant a return someday.

** Other drawback to Wednesday's journey: my car smells like new paint not new car. Seriously, the inside smells like the inside of your house when a fresh coat arrives. I think I did get a lill contact high from the fumes. *Car was hit in a parking lot the day of Cassi's opera and after getting my insurance company to pay fix the dent (after 250 out of pocket because person didn't leave insurance info, probably because they didn't have any, or b.c since the dent was rather small, they didn't think it was worth leaving info. But it's noticable to mama)
Now I have to take the car back to the body shop because they didn't finish touching up the scratches, it's been a hassle.

**Wednesday night we drove into the city to visit with one of erik's friends from japan who recently moved to Chicago from Seattle (wooo all of you Seattle-loving friends can pick her brain if you'd like). We were courageous enough to try a place called the Paragon in the area, and the general population was at least twice our age. We deduced this was because it is situated near the hospital. After dinner Erik and I drove to UIC for the Bloc Party/Panic at the Disco! concert. Knowing nothin about Panic at the Disco! but looking forward to Bloc Party's set, we were drastically disappointed to learn that Bloc Party wasn't performing due to illness. Sign said "refunds at point of purchase" which for Erik was ticketmaster. (Insert groans of annoyance for ticketmaster here) after being on hold for 20 minutes, we learned certificed mail to customer service was the way to attain said refund. (I took a camera phone photo of the sign though, just in case). So, we drove back to Naperville, while commenting on choice music of another person. Scrabble and bedtime finished out the evening.

**Thursday I spent with Erik's extended family having a traditional Thanksgiving Day set up. Yum yum. It was great, swapping stories about ruining other holidays, watching NFL games and trying not to be "THAT GIRL"^ Incidently I never check out football players, and I know a thing or two about college football - just not NFL rules or announcers.

^THAT GIRL meanin the one that knows nothing about the teams playing and continues to ask questions like "Why did he throw it to that guy?" or "Gee, his butt looks cute in those pants"

Kyle, Erik and I left when the Scrabble challenge was made. Truly I think Erik's family is out of my league for Scrabble. Last time I played I got my mom tipsy first and had to argue that hijinx didn't have a hyphen.

**I left Naperville at roughly 7:30 and got back to IC around 10pm. I went back via 55 to 80 though, since it was Thanksgiving Day and I assumed that at least a few gas stations might still be open there. Luckily the BP in Genosca (splg?) was, but they were closing in 10 minutes. whew!

**Friday I spent the whole day organizing and cataloging via Librarything.com. I have roughly 250 books in my collection now. Including a large # of undergrad art history and english texts, and some library science books from gradschool...harry potter, horsey books, etc. They will all be put into boxes, labeled, and easily locatable via librarything tags. Now, to get my folks to donate some of their collection to the library. Really the rafters aren't the best places to stick outdated encyclopedias.

**Erik joined me on Friday night and we joined some friends at the Field House (not so affectionatly known in IC as the "meatlocker" or "fieldwhore", these monikers are ascribed because older guys often sit at the top level of the bar, and can look down upon the dance floor two levels below. You are free to draw your own conclusions as to what they hope to see.) It is not one of my favorite bars in IC...honestly beyond Billiards Club, none are favorites anymore, since Martini's redesigned after the tornado. Regardless, I seem to still attract strange men wishing to dance with me. I'm not saying I'm the cutest of my friends, far from I think, but for some reason, guys see me dancing with my other guy friends, and yet, still think I'd want to dance with them more. Why is that? Fellas, if a woman is dancing in the middle of a group of 4 or 5 guys for most of the evening, or with a guy who is obviously her gay guy pal, please do not assume she wants to dance with you. If she's already got a smile on her face, is laughing and all over seems to be enjoying herself, this does not mean she's "on the hunt" or looking to strike up a new/brief friendship consisting of dancing with you. You may be a perfectly wonderful guy, or you could be a sleeze. It wouldn't make a difference. She's not there to find you.
(I say this not to hurt the feelings of guys who ask women to dance and get rejected, just to point out that when she says no thanks the first time, she really does mean no thanks. No amount of reasking will make her change her mind, in fact it will probably make her really annoyed and prompt her to write a blog note about how drunk guys that don't listen are extremely annoying.) I don't need rescuing by my guy friends, but I was quite glad that Patrick was there to help me prove my point that I already had a dance partner. The response of "aww, you're no fun" doesn't win me over to your desires either, drunkie. This guy wasn't nearly as bad and "slap your ass when you look away" guy from last week at the Loft bar in DM. Geez guys, figure it out. Women out at bars are not of only "one type" --seemingly most males think one type of woman goes to a bar, the type that secretly want the unwanted attention. Incorrect assumption. There are actually a number of types of women who go to bars. Some of us go because our friends frequent these environments, and in order to see our friends, we have to be willing to go to a bar on occasion. Some of us go simply because we love to dance, and in order to dance, we need music, music is played by djs in bars. It is true that some women do go to bars because they want to socialize and meet new people and have guys pick them up. Rarely will these women actually invite you back to their place that evening(though sometimes they will). Sometimes you might get a phone number. But the majority of women in a bar, after initially saying no to dancing with you, will not change their mind. Not as they drink more, and not as they get more sober. Your window of opportunity doesn't exist. Also, to guys out there that think it is okay to slap a woman on the ass that you do not know, be prepared that if you do act upon your instinct to slap her, she will most likely slap you back, across the face, and hopefully report you to the bouncer or management. This is VERY IMPORTANT FOR BOTH MEN AND WOMEN: DON"T ASSUME ANY PERSON IN A BAR WANTS YOU TO TOUCH THEM IN ANYWAY. ALWAYS ASK ASK ASK FIRST!!!! If they tell you don't. Don't. Simple rule to live by.
Mr. "Slap My Ass" Guy was standing at the bar, while I was talking with Liz, and we were all trying to help her get over her hiccups. He taps me on the shoulder and says "look over there" and points toward the emergency exit of the bar ( i didn't actually look at the exit, but I knew that's where he was pointing) I gave him a quizical look and asked "Um, why?" He goes "oh, just look." "Uh, I'm okay thanks anyways." I respond and turn slighly back toward Liz. I get the "Aww, you're no fun. I was gonna slap your ass when you looked." What is that? I mean seriously. My response: shook my head, ignored the guy, and moved to the other side of Erik. What my response should have been: "Had you slapped my ass, I would have requested you get kicked out of this bar for sexual harrassment." I don't know what I do to spur on this kind of behavior. If it's me, or them, but I'm more inclined to believe it's them. So get yourselves into the mindset of preventing this type of behavior folks. Don't instigate it, and don't tolerate it.

**Moving on...Saturday I worked at the CPL til 4:30pm, then Erik and i went to dinner at the Jade Sisters. I'll recommend their California rolls. We had invites to Wylde Nept, which I'm sure would have been fun, but I was so dead from the night out on Friday and working all day, that I really wanted a night in, and Erik had school work to get done also. So my apologies to the nepts.

**Sunday we lounged around because that's what Sundays are made for. ;) Bears game, and sushi at Misa's. Thanks Misa for hosting and preping and viv and trish for rolling, yummy yummy, two nights of sushi in a week? wow, I'm spoiled.

**Monday, well, I've written this blog, my car is now fixed (by 3pm) and the errands are calling to me.

Thanks for listening folks, and until next time...

Friday, November 17, 2006

Choose Your Own Blogging Adventure

Okay, taking a quick poll. Of those of you out there who like reading blogs...would you like reading a "Choose your own adventure" that revolves around daily entries in a person's life? It would be fiction of course..but designed with that basic premise in mind. i.e. what could happen in each situation if said character made one decision, or said character made another decision (and YOU get to make those decisions) and advance to the new dated entry...
I'm just curious...a creative outlet for my writing at this point I guess...

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Oh my god. Give me a break. O.J....didn't you have more than your share of 15 minutes of fame.

Thursday, November 09, 2006

I saw Marriage of Figaro last weekend at ISU. We went on Thursday night, and I realized just how spoiled I was at Indiana for opera performances. The singers did a good job though and it was entertaining.
Kudos to everyone who went out and voted. Gold stars all around.
I'm hoping to see borat tomorrow night with some friends here, since I've heard such good things about it from other sources.
Then Sat morn it's off to Chicago for a mini reunion with some of the Indiana U art librarians and students, yay! ;)
back here Sunday for Thanksgiving with Steve and Victoria.
okay, that's a wrap.

Monday, November 06, 2006


HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY HEDDASISSY

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHAI!!

Sunday, November 05, 2006

#000 Cat on a Hot Tin Roof Apartment #93

Watched both of these recently. Apartment was good, entertaining albeit some heavy subject matter also, including affairs and suicides. Tin roof was even worse for heavy subject matter, but the message comes through. Show your family members love, and tell them that you love them, frequently. Also, possessions may be 9/10ths of the law, but they mean jack in the end. (*my apologies to people named Jack with that expression) But yes, the quest to finish the list continues.
In other recent news: I visited the DM Art Center finally. Bought a book about it. Reading it during all the downtime which is alot. Also went to the zoo. Tiger scared me. It was pawing at the glass, glass didn't look so sturdy. Lions were vocal. monkeys were cute. Fell asleep early Friday night. My apologies to the ISU folks, since I missed the party, but my costume would have been "signholder" and that isn't nearly impressive enough anyways. Boy, I was tired that night. Whoops, time for dinner.

Saturday, November 04, 2006

More Halloween Fun

Rest of the Halloween Recap:
The Pumpkin Party was tons of fun. I was amazed we were able to turn the garage into crazy "spooky" venue for carving. The cider was a hit, and our pumpkins were all lovely (if not a lill burnt hehe) After carving we got pizza and watched Mr. Vampire. Mr. Vampire has now become a facebook group, the movie was so funny. You should all check it out if you haven't seen it and then ask to join the group after. ;)
Other points of Interest/discussion.
misa, Faraji, Erik and I went to a costume party on Friday night hosted by some former West High folks, and yes, I was pretty proud I didn't bring an IC townie with me. Though the banana did have to throw down for bragging rights upon our arrival. But, as any good fashion expert knows, it's all in the accessories. Because Erik had the sign and the maraccas, he can claim victory. I went as a devil, misa was a firewoman, (and I pointed out to her that really, with a viynl costume, she's probably be the first to go up in smoke) and Faraji was a vampire.
Saturday was spent doing something, but I can't remember what..(woo hoo for my memory being shot after a week, jeesh) Saturday night is the aforementioned post about Wylde Nept. And that, deer folks, was Halloween. Pictures, as promised, follow now...


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Wednesday, November 01, 2006

Wylde Nept and Halloween Festivities

My introduction to Wylde Nept consisted of watching some cowboys (and one mexican?) swagger to the stage at the Mill to Kid Rock singing "I wanna be a cowboy, baby" which blarred through the bar's stereo system. I was not alarmed though. I had come to see an Irish/Celtic folk song band, and, given the number of people dressed for the holiday of Halloween, it was comforting to know that the band didn't abandon the idea of getting in the costume spirit.
I was more alarmed when the first song they played was "Save a horse, ride a Cowboy."
Nothing against Wylde Nept, but I have a complete aversion to that song. It stems from my days of riding horses. As a blonde teenager who circulated in the Eastern Iowa 4-H and local showing scenes, I was exposed to both country music and breeches and everything that went along with this set of folks. That set included overly-friendly guys, usually 20 years my senior, in their Wrangler jeens and dusty boots, who were quick with a smile, AND quick with an arm, that they'd throw over your shoulder as a form of howdy. I can't count the number of times I saw this phrase plastered on the bumpers of their beatup ole Dodge trucks/trailers. To this day, that song conjures up these images and leaves me with a slightly off-putting feeling in my stomach. So I just sighed and watched as everybody else began pounding on the tables to the rhythm. I perked up at the end when they shouted "Slaggo" and the clinking of glasses announced what I assumed to be a traditional Irish equivalent to prost or kanpai.*
The rest of the night was a lot of fun. It wasn't too smokey, so I was able to take pleasure in the whole concert without sneezing. They played a number of songs I couldn't join my seatmates in singing along with, but I could tap my feet to show I was enjoying myself. Lindsay even taught me the basic steps to an Irish gig. (Lord of the Dance I am not, but fun regardless) They even did a request and sang "Serenity" for a little Joss Whedon cowboy shout out. Also, the costume contest was funny. First place went to the Pulp Fiction couple, though I pointed out to a slightly dejected Erik, who claimed he couldn't compete with a hypodermic needle stuck in her chest, that this particular Mia Wallace wasn't nearly as tall as Uma Thurman, so their realism was a bit "eh". Erik was only slightly dejected, because, well you really can't be totally dejected when you've won second place in a costume contest. Third place went to both Wylde Nept look-a-like bands, which prompted me to wonder about the label the fans took. Lindsay says they are the "Neptiles" but honestly, I think the "Neptitudes" has a better ring to it. :)
We stepped out during one of the breaks between sets and headed over to Joe's place where Cas, Pete, Beth, Misa, Viv and Trica were. I was surprised to run into Adam there also (sans costume, for shame!). I really could only stay there long enough to give him a hug and pose for a photo before I began to choke on the smoke fumes. My eyes were watering five seconds through the door. We finished out the night back at the Mill. Yes, I did later till Erik he probably had nearly 3 pitchers of beer and a few shots.
Sunday was spent watching NFL football and lounging around. For some reason I am even more lazy on Sundays when Erik's visiting. Not that he really complains about the down time those days. One really interesting thing we caught on t.v was the Food Network's Candy Castle challenge. I am a huge fan of shows where I get to watch people be creative with food items. It reminds me of younger days spent making ghetto gingerbread houses with Becca and Misa for the holidays. You'd be amazed how easily those darn graham cracker walls cave in. I suggest we all tune in to admire the professional's abilities.
More about the Halloween festivities of other nights to come...

*I later discovered this is a particular made-up Wylde Nept toast, but it has the same effect. Everybody drinks. My conclusion, Wylde Nept is a good drinking game with good live music.

Monday, October 30, 2006

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

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Monday, October 23, 2006

Every one of us has a problem, or maybe many. Maybe our problems are related to worrying about our loved ones, or maybe our problems come from what actions we take. In any event sometimes when you just want to escape your problems, and you wonder, what really is the point to life, it's time to remember that usually the cosmos works in mysterious ways.

Alot of crappy stuff has been happening lately, for my friends, my family, and to a lesser extent to me. But, I think the mature way to look at this is to go, why do I want to escape feeling badly for others and myself? Sure, it sucks right now, but often timesbec there is a silver lining, or a realization that I can make after these events happen. In a way it's the quote "what doesn't kill me makes me stronger" that comes to mind. Life is in deed a series of ups and downs. I often wonder why people get what they get, and do they deserve it? because bad things can happen to good people, and good people can sometimes do bad things. Is it karma? just unlucky? are they mean otherwise?

I can't spend so much time doing this anymore. It is far better to accept that sometimes shit happens. And what determines your strength of character is how you deal with the aftermath. Also, no event is really a singular occurance. there are smaller moments that lead to those that stick out in our minds. Those particularly great and those particularly lousy.

For what it's worth, my prayers go out to you all.

Sunday, October 15, 2006

Musical Moments

Guster's performance on Oct 6th was super fun for me. I'm not so sure it was as fun for the friends I dragged along...
Cassi knows some of Guster's songs because she will be cruising with them on the Ships and Dip cruise. Yup, she's a huge BNL fan and is following them south very soon. I have the option to send a video as to why I want to be Scooter for a day (if I win I would go on the same cruise). Scooter is the drum tech for Guster. I introduced Cas to Guster for this reason. She'll get me an autograph (I hope) hehe. Misa saw Guster at the 10,000 hrs show, and knows most of the songs from Goldfly and a few from Keep It Together. Viv and Beth and Huey were there because they'd been with us at the parade, though as Guster themselves wrote on their road journal "There will be 15,000 people there, probably 5% Guster fans, 15% Kansas fans, and 100% drunk people." They were somewhat correct...

Advantages: Lead singer, Brian wore a Hamburg Inn #2 shirt.
They played a rendition of "In Heaven There is No Beer" and a version of "Homecoming King" dedicated to Iowa's newly crowned King and Queen.
Astrophysics Boy was able to make an arrival and only missed a few songs.
Guster also modified "In Heaven" to explain "Guster has no gear, that's why we're singing here" because their drumset and keyboards didn't make it from their last gig. However, I think that makes the IC concert that much more unique. And they did a geat job regardless. (though Brian couldn't play with his hands on a rented drumset...can't get that set bloody or anything)
Drawbacks: Really tall guys standing pretty much right next to me on my right who were very drunk (seemingly) and kept yelling stuff like: Play Dust in the Wind.
And the girls who showed up half way through the concert, and tried to push their way to the front, complete with their tavel sized (luckily plastic) bottle of Smirinof Raspberry. Security (two guys standing on the edge of the stage) didn't seem to mind that at all, as they just looked on and laughed.
The stench/aroma? of marijuana was also an annoyance for me, as I am pretty damn allergic to it, even via contact exposure.
But, advantages outweighed.

Also, last night I had the opp. to be "hired" to videotape an opera production. This was a $65 dollar a seat affair at the hotelVetro in Iowa City. So I got to see the hotelVetro - which appears to be an attempt at a "modern" style, even though to me it came off as more of a "sterile" style. I got to try sushi from Formosa though, which wasn't too bad and give away my drink tickets to those adventurous enough to try Saketinis. I did snag a great looking bottle of VOSS water for my collection.
(I'm not sure I've mentioned my habit of collecting interesting looking bottles that are aesthetically pleasing to my senses/sentimental but I've been doing it for a few years now. There is in fact a Jazz vodka bottle that Astrophysics Boy is working his way through for me, it looks like a trumpet!)
The best part though, was everyone believed I was the sister of the director and why shouldn't they, as she's my twister. (i.e. twin sister in theory)

Not only that, but I got to be incrediably proud of her official professional opera directorial debut. The blocking was great, even though it meant I spent a bit more time panning. Cas did a great job staging Cox and Box in the lobby of the hotel. A triple challenge, because the audience was on EITHER side of the hotel's entrance, it's a public space, and she had only three days to work it all out. It was an enjoyable spectacle and her cast did a lovely job. Cedar Rapids Opera Company would do well to keep her employeed. I just hope the video turned out well, as associated people were clamouring for a copy afterwards.

Thursday, October 12, 2006

non-fiction writing class...

April 10, 2000
"Don't it always seem to go, you don't know what you got till it's gone? They paved Paradise, and put up a parking lot."

Amy Grant belted out this line on the radio the other day as I was driving back from Ames. These simple lyrics jump-started my brain. I began to evaluate my life and the things that I tend to take for granted. The things that I don't know I have until they are no longer there. Maybe they didn't ever pave over my Paradise in the literal sense of the word. I don't lament the loss of a favorite oak tree that became the Seven-Eleven parking lot. But, they, or rather Fate, as I see it, wanted me to see what I had, and what I could easily lose. It was one of those moments that stick with you. You can see it in such vivid detail and play it over and over in your head despite how young you were. And sometimes, even now, as you are doing some mundane task, or looking at some ordinary object, you are reminded of that day. The day you suddenly realized you had something great, but lost it.

I was five years old when my first best friend died. I know that at five years old I was perhaps too young to graps the implications of such a tragedy, yet as I listened to the refrain piped through my car speakers, I began to remember what it feels like to know that your individual paradise has been crushed.

We went to the same pre-school. We spent all our time together. We were the classic definition of best buds. We were content to play with each other, instead of other children. When the teachers used to split us up "to socialize and increase our friendship and sharing skills," like heat-seeking missiles intent on finding that one locked target, we'd scan the playground, sight, zero-in and proceed. In front of the teachers we were always casual and simply ambled over to each other. But we knew we were drawn by comfort of familiarity and fun. We played with the same toys, shared our snacks, sat in the shade of the same tree, and built block towers in the grass.

This was my version of Paradise. This was my simply childhood innocence and indestructible logic. Everything made sense. Brad and I. We made sense. We, and only we, got our secret jokes, knew our secret language and understood our world of blurred make-believe and reality.

Brad's death serves as a reminder to me today, that sometimes events are so complicated that as a child we don't understand why things happen or what impact they may have.

"Brad doesn't go to pre-school anymore, he has gone to Heaven."

This was my mother's attempt to explain such a difficult concept to a five year old girl, who simply couldn't seek out her best friend on the playground earlier that day. There were no secret jokes, no language, no snacks, and no block tower. Looking back on that day, I realize my childhood world of sheltered playtime and pretend could only last so long before some event would become real enough to make that blur come into focus.

My mom believes that it is better he died when i was five. She thinks there is less hurt, because there was less to be hurt about. I'd known him for two years. That was all. Maybe she's right and maybe she's wrong. I can't help wondering if we'd made it through more of life's journey, would I have hurt more to lose someone so abruptly? Or would I have had the chance to grieve more fully, the way that an adult friend should be able? If we'd grown up together, shared more memories, developed our connection more deeply, would I have hurt more at his death? I can't answer that last question for myself. I can't answer it for others either. I can only say, hearing that song, caused me to remember this event and muss on its potential impact.

You don't always know what you had, until it is taken from you. The flip side is that sometimes you don't appreciate the especially great people and rare things you experience. Upon remembering, you tuly see that Paradise is not as much of an illusion or make-believe as it first appears to be. Brad and I shared something, no matter how short it was, I can look back and not simply think, "Gee, I didn't know what I had," because I do. I am grateful for it. I am grateful for the acknowledgement I gain in noticing some of the effects his death has had on my own life.

Friday, October 06, 2006

hollywood boulevard #12

I think I can say that Sunset Boulevard is the first Billy Wilder film I've ever seen. Kinda surprising considering he wrote and directed a good portion of the films of the Hollywood Hay Day era, and also, the Apartment. Now, I had thought I'd seen the Apartment, however, I don't believe I did, since the plot seems totally different from the movie I remember seeing. So, Sunset Boulevard has sold me on Billy Wilder films. Or at least, I'll be taking a look at his other films (not to mention others are on the AFI list anyways)

As a movie, it has a definate old Hollywood feel, and it reminds me of how quickly new technology can put people out of business. The movie is about a silent film star making her "return" to the screen, or at least attempting. It traces a writer hired to help her modify a screenplay she wrote for this "reintroduction." The movie starts with this writer face down in a pool, having been shot. I won't spoil the plot by saying that it's an entertaining movie. The musical score was noticable also, which I found interesting. As I believe, most times, the musical score shouldn't be noticable in a movie, except in the very dramatic moments when it's heightened and additive. Sunset Boulevard had a score throughout, and throughout it was noticable to me. Perhaps that has since changed, or it was more delibrate to highlight the silent film to sound film aspect. Regardless though, I'd say it's worth renting/checking out and watching.

Sunday, October 01, 2006

Congratulations!


Congratulations and Best Wishes are in order to Lindsay and Josh Elliot as they join the officially married couples of the world.
This weekend brought a close to my time at ACT, mountains of laundry, $10 loss at the new Riverside Casino, (but I made up for it in enjoying time with friends), a wedding, a football game, and a brunch.

Friday, September 29, 2006

Memory Circle

Congrats to Christa, on her acceptance of a position on the OTHER side of the ILL department at IUB. :) May you find the borrowing as much fun as the lending.
Also, for those of you who believe in the power of prayer, or you believe that just thinking about someone can send them "good vibes" then please do so for Christa and her family, as they are going through a bit of a rough patch.

I took my grandmother's ring to a store tonight to see if they can replace the missing stone. No surprise that since it's an antique ring, they'll have to cut a new stone with the same "cut style" from a piece of original rock that is of the same coloring...i.e. a peridot of particular shade....so it sounds like it's going to cost quite a bit to fix, but to me, it will be worth it. What can I say, but that I am attachted to sentimental things such as these. My grandma let me pick one piece of jewelry from her jewelry box for my birthday when I was either 14, 15, or 16 (and we still had the old cottage at Okoboji in the family). I picked the ring, because it looked like it was my birthstone (and I didn't have anything else w. my birthstone except for my original studs from piercing my ears). But, I have to say half the fun of that time was the pleasure I got from looking through her possessions. I'm not saying that in any sort of sick, money-hungry type tone...but more in the tone of, it's neat to think about what other people collect as far as personal adornment goes. It was more fun for me to hear the stories that went along with other pieces in her collection, than to really settle on something.
I found the same thing to be true when I recently raided my mom's box to find a gold object to go with my "Roman Goddess" costume, and found "Care to Teach" pins, and some cufflinks of my dad's, and a neat tennis bracelet with various charms for her to explain.
In a way, it is funny that I don't remember the background of the particular peridot ring. I remember more how I felt getting to spend some quality one on one time with Grandma Madeliene. A rare commodity when there were 14 other cousins (a few with their own new additions), her own 5 remaining children, and my Grandfather, plus NUMEROUS stoppers-by that could occupy her attention on the front porch downstairs.
My grandma is great. I think maybe that's a universal for people that love their grandparents to say, but for me, it does hold true.
She's one of a kind, in the way that I'm sure all grandmothers are. And to have a small reminder of that uniqueness in something I can keep in a box and pass on to my own offspring will make repairing it worth the monetary expense.

Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Happy Birthday SASSY! :)


--to my twin. She's the best.

Sunday, September 24, 2006

Sensory Stimulation

This week's netflix pix: (for sight)
Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead- Tom Stoppard...
Good night and Good luck
Walk the Line
Liked all three to a point. Fell asleep during GN and GL at first, but I was exceptionally tired that night, having driven to Ames from Iowa City, with a stop over in Ankeny, and had an exceptionally annoying headache to add to the mix. Walk the Line was decent - I knew nothing about Johnny Cash before watching the movie, except that he wrote that song "The Burning Ring of Fire" - and I was quickly corrected that it is just "Ring of Fire", and RC and GS R Dead was okay. Far less funny than I had expected, but still, somewhat contemplative. I hope they make a movie out of Steve Martin's play - Picasso at the Lapin Agile (though it would be more like a "short")

This week's music pix (for sound)
Ray Lamontagne
Bonnaroo Music Festival 2004 (Bob Dylan, Dave, Ani, Gov't Mule, Guster)
Matt Bar

I discovered Lamontagne because he was recently touring with Guster. I discovered Bonnaroo because I checked the CPL to see if we had any Guster. Matt went to highschool with me, and I helped him scan photos for his first website. He's also "folksy" in a sense like Guster and Ray (Ray seemingly a bit more jazz, and Matt is alot more "rap" haha, yes, folk rap - think Jason Mraz, but local to the IC.)


This week's food pix (for taste)
Granite City's Spinach and Artichoke Dip and Chinese Pasta Salad
Despite recent outbreaks of e.coli in fresh spinach, Granite City's dish was still being served (though their spinach salad wasn't) And their Chinese Pasta salad was a great choice - and will make my third meal of it for the weekend in about 20 minutes...yummy! Gotta love a dish I paid 9 dollars for that lasted for 3 meals.

This week's fabric pix (for touch)
Victoria Secret Silk PJ's and my awesome Japanese blanket
All I can say is I love to go to sleep with these items...I just wish I got more sleep!

This week's candle pix (for smell)
Party Lite's Zen...
this candle scent rocks. I've been giving it away to all my friends (here in iowa city anyways) if you live out of this area, get them!! It's tranquil and relaxing.

This week's read pix (for the "mental" sense)
Banned Books Week September 23- 30

Tuesday, September 19, 2006


Happy Very Merry Scandalous Birthday to you!

Monday, September 18, 2006

Okay, movie attempt...this is much easier than loading one right into the blog - javascript and coding aside, linking is just better :)

here?

Hope that worked.

Happy Belated Blog Announced Bday to Drew. (Was Sept 15th) If I figure out how to post movie clips to blogger I will also include a rendition of Kriss Kross "Jump" that earned free beer.

Also, have an interview on Wednesday. Wish me luck.

Broken But Reassembled Like New

How many of you out there find successful outlets to venting anger or releasing stress and anxiety? Sometimes life is just so annoying or messed up or worriesome that you have very little recourse than to exhaust yourself in a fight with a pillow, a good bitch session with a friend, journaling, or an attempt at relaxation techniques.

Well, I know I have. Often, Stitchy, my fearless stuffed bear takes the brunt of my frustrations, both in becoming "SuperStitchy" (which means he gets hurled across the bedroom in hopes of hitting a wall) or playing kleenex to my more oft found faucet of tears. I guess psychologists say there is a "good way" to deal with stress and frustration and a "bad way." A good way would be to go and exercise. A bad way would be to exercise your fist into someone else's face. A bad way would be to drink yourself into a drunken oblivion. A good way would be to smash a tomatto and drink a home-made V8. (This is not being mean to veggies but creating a healthyoutlet) Of course, I'm not advocating combining the two (Bloody Mary) and calling it even.
The levels of stress and anxiety or frustration that many Americans feel today are prevelant. A look at the number of prescriptions for anti-anxiety medications can easily tell you this. It is no wonder that not managing stress/frustration can lead to so many physical health problems.

Mind over matter isn't just a saying folks. But maybe matter does play a part. Perhaps there is a reason why companies are able to sell "Stress balls" to squeeze, and mini punching bags for your office desk. That emotional outlet when directed toward an object instead of a person is better for sure, but then, that also can lead to some damage. What we all really clamour for, is a way to express our anger without suffering irreparable consequences. This guy has the right idea.

I don't have the answers. I just have random mussings. But I'll leave you with one image that often comes to mind when I think of frustrated, stressed-out folks...Click here.

Monday, September 11, 2006

Find a Spot.

blah. I apparently currently suck at life. Is it the weekend yet?


On to lighter and more fun fare. Of the top 24 spots I would be "best suited" to live... 6 are in Wisconsin, 2 are in Illinois and curiously, none in Iowa or other midwest states...hmm...


http://www.findyourspot.com

That's all today kiddies.

Wednesday, September 06, 2006

**** *****

I can tell Fall is coming. Actually it is starting to permeate the Iowa Summer Air. This excites me.*
hiking to see the color-changing leaves, wrapping myself in big fluffy sweaters and drawstring hoodies, football games, tailgating, hot chocolate and apple cider, halloween (this year's costumes already include Family Guy and Bubble people from Dude, Where's My Car
**
and hayrack rides and October will also be a month of anniversaries.
DRAMATIC PAUSE...and the BESTEST NEWS OF ALL....
GUSTER IN IOWA CITY!!!*** SEEING GUSTER LIVE!!!
concert is on the Pentacrest, which means, not only is it free, BUT, if I try I can get a good lawn chair seat, and maybe meet the boys!! Oh this makes me so happy. And I know someone who will be happy to see Guster with me (if it doesn't start at 6:30) than Lifehouse.****

*A random list of things that exicte me will be a future blogpost. Feel free to take notes.
**Incidently, does anyone know where to purchase/rent a banana costume for a person over 6ft tall? Or where to get pre-made bubblewrap suits?
***This is an anniversary of sorts for Guster, as this will be their third time in Iowa City.
****Thanks for seeing Lifehouse.

Monday, August 28, 2006

Renovation or Relocation?

So I have been contemplating a few other blog services out there recently. I am considering a move. Either a move, or at least renovating this blog, so it's a bit more snazzy. (I am giving myself bonus props for using the word snazzy)
I have been scoping out wordpress.com specifically because I can organize tags to classify posts....I know, maybe not nec...but the librarian in me is screaming "oooohhhhh" about that. (and the rest of you are probably screaming "whoooo, nerd" at that too)
we'll see what I come to decide, but this is forwarning in case change does occur. I know I know, some of you are probably resistant to change, well, guess what, the only constant in life, is that some stuff changes :) so embrace it if you can.
Also, got Season II of Dead Like Me from a little birdy tonight. Hung w. some friends at a place called the Red Poppy tonight, which felt dangerously like I was on the borderline to a potential drugbust for "hookah" which I guess IS legal, but doesn't it sound soo illegal? Regardless of legallity, place had really good organic tea. :) The conversation wasn't bad either.

Sunday, August 27, 2006

When in Rome...

I wasn't actually in Rome. But I did attend a toga party hosted by a good friend of Astrophysics boy. It was a pretty good time. People were friendly, pirates were present, and a golden retriever licked my hand. Sadly, the party didn't end on the best of terms, but luckily it had nothing to do with us and many of the other party goers who were all very nice and the wonderful hosts/hostesses.

Had I been in Rome, I may have missed the news that Pluto is now a "dwarf planent", cause well I don't speak Italian. Instead I got to hear a very logical explanation from a knowledgable source. So yay for science learning for the weekend.

Also went out to Bo James on Friday night for a going away party (been having many of those lately) so I wish her the best of luck (though she won't really need luck where she's going - a lot of coffee and a Boston Globe will get her through).

The other departed friend is hopefully doing well in her relocation. Hang in there girl. Mucho supporto from over here.

That is all for this update.

Thursday, August 17, 2006

Gentlemen Prefer Blondes

"damn straight they do. lol" - anthrogirl.

I watched this movie the other night. it's not on the afi list (at least I don't remember it being on the list).

I didn't really like it though. There was something sort of undercutting about a woman who "plays dumb, and is really smart" in that "women lose their charms over the years but diamonds are always like hard currency" I mean, then she goes and tells the guy she loves him, but that she wants diamonds from him and gets a tiara from another dude, that she seems to basically be leading on. Perhaps it's just because I didn't grow up during this era...but PUH_LEASE. It just didn't sit right with me. I did enjoy the musical aspect, and Jane Russell's character, but overall the movie left me feeling pretty cold and jaded toward blondes with alterior motives.

Monday, August 07, 2006

Here's Looking at You (Casablanca) Kid #2

I've seen the ending to Casablanca at least 3 times. I always seem to catch it playing on some television station right as Bergman is tearful, and Bogart on the tarmac doing his oh so very selfless, chivalrous thing. Of course I did not understand his actions as benevolent until all the pieces fit together by watching the whole film.
This was also the first film on my AFI list that I watched on the projection sceen in my basement and with 3 other people. Thanks for joining in guys. ;) (was contemplating cooking couscous and honeycakes)
So, first off, I've got to say, I hadn't known that the song with the lyrics "a kiss is just a kiss" was from Casablanca. (can we say Sleepless in Seattle and a whole ton of other romantic movies that have since used this?)
Another familiar plot line. Woman falls in love with another man, when she believes her husband is dead. I called this as soon as Ilsa walks into Rick's. Can you say Pearl Harbor? (same time period...coincidence? I think not..."of all the gin joints...")
Anyways, I can understand why this film is included in every Film 101 syllabus. And I would have regretted not seeing the film in its entire grandour, maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but some day, and for the rest of my life.

Sunday, August 06, 2006

Rapid Eye Movement

The past few days have been a blur of activity around the household. Starting with the return from the family reunion in Okoboji, and discovering to my dismay that my mother broke her leg. Or rather, her fibula at the base of where it connects to the ankle. For those of you medics out there, that's right, the hip bone is connected to the leg bone and the leg bone is no longer connected to the ankle bone for mom (at least until November) I feel so bad for her :( For such an active person to be inactive will be tough. My first joke though was that because she's immobile, she's easy to get by mobile. She's been on the cell quite a bit. Luckily my mother is a fantastic woman, and has many many friends here in IC that have been out to visit her and bring her food, and at the same time my friend Cassi has been staying with the Winklers, and she's been great at pitching in with the family chores. I love that girl...not just for her attitude but her wonderous ability to have so much energy when it comes to household duties that aren't even hers. She's a guest for goodness sake, and yet, she's washing dishes and clearing the table just like me. She's my bestest twin sister ever. :)
In related news, I was hesitant to go due to mom's injury, but leaving her in capable hands (and feet of others) I did head up to Ames to help with the move in process for the Astrophysicist in training. It was a very smooth gig and his folks and sis were very nice, (they even got me a cake, gift and dinner for my birthday! How very very very thoughtful of them! THANK YOU!)
The rest of the birthday festivities commenced in IC this weekend, which included a wonderful birthday cake designed by Maggie for Laura, Elissa and myself. Thank you!!! Special thanks to Laura for sharing her nighttime activities with me. Such fun.
Thanks to everyone who called, emailed, facebooked (and yah, that's gonna be in Webster's in a few years) and well-wished in person. You all make my time here on Earth that much more enjoyable. (Sounds sappy I know...but it's true)
This next week will consist of working, and helping mom and then this weekend will be Madison for Beerfest. Should be an interesting time.

Thursday, July 27, 2006

Vacation all I ever wanted, time to get away

Returned from Okoboji on Tuesday night with an injured passenger :( but I think we had a good time overall. Tried some waterskiing, had a baby shower for a cousin once removed (but not quite removed from the womb yet) nutty bars, night boat rides, a little air hockey (one of the best comebacks in a long time!) swimming and sleep.
We also went to Pirates of Penzance on Friday night which was so much fun! It's a good funny musical/opera. We also joined some friends at the campground to hang out for a bit, which was also fun. The new bikini fit well, and the stomach rash has gone away. So the outlook is good at the moment. Still working on the full time job front (the CPL is only part time) ACT has apparently started interviewing for the Information Resource Specialist position, but they haven't called me yet...
Had a good swim in the North Liberty pool today also.
Allrighty, that is all.
Congrats to Trac on the job!

Thursday, July 20, 2006

Dead and Gone Like Me

Actually this title comes from a t.v. show I just discovered via Sci-Fi, which I now want to go out and rent the entire first season to watch. It's totally the type of shows (movies) I like. Dark Comedies are the defence mechanisms of the mundane daily existence for the rest of us I guess. Dead Like Me is an interesting premise with a well written script and it is also well acted. I caught this last night while my father and I watched t.v. and mom and I played Scrabble ( i beat her 219 to 216. yes, that's right TOm, I BEAT someone at Scrabble, imagine after all these years playing with you online, I simply needed the board in front of me to win, though I don't count a 3 point differential "kicking ass" or anything.)
In other news the "gone" part. I will be gone to Okoboji Iowa this weekend, through Tuesday for my family reunion. Much rejoicing and such will occur (or so I hope) though this gal has to apparently stay out of the sun! WHAT!?!?! stay out of the sun on a LAKE? are you kidding me? Doctors are on crack btw. Or at least those I apparently wind up seeing. I've been on an antibiotic (which I'm posed to be on for the whole month which says on the bottle "avoid prolonged exposure to the sun) okay, well, fine, I heed bottle warnings. I was out for all of an hour on Monday, wearing a new bikini (which makes me self-conscious enough anyways right?) and low and behold about half an hour later, I start to itch on my stomach...well surprise....rash city! lovely right? so I'm thinking, okay, go see the doc. Tuesday morning, i see the doctor, and he's like, stop taking that antibiotic, this is a photo-sensitivity rash, and you can develop allergic reactions to drugs even after taking them for a week and a half. so, tah-dah, I stop taking it call the doc that prescribed it, and she says, "NO, keep taking it, it doesn't cause photo-sensitivity." - Except that it has to, b.c otherwise they wouldn't put a label on the bottle warning about it right? and besides the other doctor that saw me actually saw the rash and diagnosed it...so I go with his answer.
I seem to have rotten luck with health these days :( blah. otherwise everything else is going well...still looking for that full time job, so I can move out of the basement, and the ability to pay rent somewhere else (perhaps moving in w. laura or pete or cassi? who knows!)
anyways, the "gone" part also means I'll be in Naperville next weekend - going to see the King Tut exhibit with Erik and his folks...hooray. I am looking forward to that. and I promise I won't collapse in the museum ---been there and done that already.
Hope all is well with the rest of you out there.

Wednesday, July 12, 2006

Please Return to the Library

I started work officially at theCPL today. The staff was very helpful in answering all of my bumbling questions. It was funny, as the Assistant Director did say I was the first substitute librarian they've hired in the middle of the summer, or rather, the most busy time of the yaer. However, I think I have gotten comfortable enough in a library setting--corporate, academic, public--to know enough about automated systems and generally where things are located, that I had no major mistakes, and very few minor ones also.
It felt good to be back behind a Circulation Desk. For my friends out there not in the library profession, now is the time to go "Weirdo", and the rest of you in the career will smile I'm sure.
I think working at the CPL will lead me to a very long list of new authors and books to read. Bring it on! I love reading ;)
I'm still awaiting word on the other job prospects, but I am in a very good place after the first day with a six hour shift and no real "shadowing" hehe. Throw me into the fray I say.


In other news: Okoboji plans are firmed up. Sat July 22 through Tues July 25. HOORAY!

I'm helping to design the ARLIS-STUDENT BLOG...woot for professional development contributions while not actually in an art library environment. and yay for the other IU gals and their combined effort in making the student voice heard in the organization.

So that's the update in this gal's world. What's new in yours?

Thursday, June 29, 2006

Defining BodyArt and Other

My friend recently got three more tattoos to add to his existing collection of two. I was also discussing the BodyWorld exhibition the other night. All this makes me wonder about the definition of body art. Piercings and tattoos have been around long before the modern conception of ink and needles. For a history, click here.

In other news:

Oh yea, there's a holiday coming up. Something about celebrating our nation and freedom and the like...observe it if you wish. :)

Caryn's wedding is this weekend, which means Steve and Victoria are going to be in the Iowa City area for a few days. yay, I can give them the thank you note from SF that never got mailed....whoops...

Okoboji is fast approaching

My full-time w. benefits job is also hopefully fast approaching?? *cross your fingers folks* (ACT got my online resume, they won't start interviewing for awhile though)

I have too much free time on my hands. Am considering re-employment at previous sites..(B & N and PS) if they'll have me...as well as volunteering at the Herbert Hoover museum (though that's gas $ each week) Or in the slide library IF they'll have me.

That is all. Good night.

Thursday, June 22, 2006

Feeling Wicked?

This past weekend I attended Wicked at the Ford Center/Oriental Theater.
What a great show! The set was amazing, costumes were great, musicians were wonderful, and the lyrics were awesome. I highly recommend that everyone try to get tickets and make the sojurn into the city for a little escape from our own reality and entry into the land of Oz. It's based on the book of the same name (though loosely as I am discovering). It was very entertaining, heartfelt moments, as well as comedic moments. And the best part for me, I had some very cool people to see it with! So thanks for joining me guys, on a little trip to find the yellow brick road.

Monday, June 19, 2006

I am currently reading the book Smashed and I recommend it to everyone. Yes, that's right, not just girls that are pre-college, but I'd also recommend it to the guys that I know. The author does a good job of describing her experiences growing up in the 80's and 90's, and it's a refreshing look at how raw those initial experiences where and how much time must pass before one can really evaluate why you did the things you did, or at the very least, what type of perspective you will bring to them much later.
I see many aspects of myself and my own college experiences in her writing and choices. This is what writing I guess is all about. How to find your personal voice, and yet, be able to make something that is identifiable and universal. So that, your audience, when reading goes: Ya, I hear you. I've been there. Or, Oh my god, I can't believe that happened to you. Her vehicle to achieve this reaction: alcohol. Something I have come to lately identify with a strange love/hate relationship myself.
You may think, wow, perhaps Susan is admiting in a blog that she suffers alcoholism. Well, I'm not. I don't need a drink a day or anything like that. You see, that's also a distinction the author makes. She basically says she abuses alcohol, but she's not an alcoholic. Interesting huh? But when you think about it, how many college age males and females do just that?
I'll admit I've thrown up from drinking too much and thought, gee that was stupid, I should know my limits, and not do that. (granted that's only happened twice, and once it was because I ate the mint leaves in the mojito w.o realizing you aren't supposed to do that). I'll also admit I've been drunk enough that I don't entirely remember the sequence of events of an evening. Ya, that was a scary night. I stopped drinking for a long time after that one.
Have I had to have other people take care of me after drinking? Well, yeah, that one scary night, and one other one that I can definately remember. Have I now learned to drink responsibly? I hope so....but one must ask themselves what exactly does that mean?
Does responsibly mean that you simply make sure someone's gonna be the DD? Does it mean you always use the "buddy system"? Does it mean you don't get behind the wheel of your car or someone else's if you've been drinking at all? Or had one or two drinks? Does it mean that you don't drink when you're underage? Does it mean you don't drink in a bar? Does it mean you watch the bartender making your drink? Does it mean you don't accept drinks from people you don't already know? Does it mean that you go up to the bar with your guy friends when THEY buy drinks for you? Does it mean you don't drink and then do something else, like pot, or hallucinagentic drugs? Does it mean you get drunk, but make sure you meet your friends when you're supposed to? Does it mean you don't get drunk and make out with someone on the street corner? or get into a fight in the ped mall?
I am a firm believer that underage (i.e. not 21) year olds in college or not, should, in fact, be allowed into bars. Because I went to bars when I was 18,19,20 and did not drink, but socialized with friends and danced. I also went and did the same at 21-24. I also believe that if I go into a bar, I am accepting that I'll be exposed to second hand smoke (unless the bar is smoke free)- and I'm also allergic to it. Sadly, I also expect that if I go into a bar, I am going to subject myself to possibly crowds of people, having drinks spilled on me, potential cigarette burns, having guys attempt to grab me, or dance on me, or try to pick me up, or feel me up. Should this be the case simply because I am a woman in the right age range? Of course not.
Have I regaled my tales of drinking that were more unusual or interesting to other people as "this one time when I was drinking" oh yea, I have. Am I proud of this? I don't know....I don't think i really am, and yet, what stories get told the most often when you're out with people in these contexts? Usually, it's, we got drunk and such and such happened. Or "man, my sister got drunk last night and it was soo funny." or "god, my roommate got drunk last night, and I had to take care of her ." And the inevitable "I don't remember doing that, I'm sorry, I was drunk."
Yeah, that sucks.
Have I spent a number of years taking care of my friends, making sure they had a DD, and offering to be it? Have I watched a number of them get sick from alcohol, yea. I've also tried to make sure they didn't do anything that was too crazy, that they'd seriously regret the next day. Have I been pissed at them for some of the stuff they'd said or did while drinking...ya? Have they been pissed at me for things I've said or did while drinking or trying to take care of them? quite possibly. Don't get me wrong, when I say I've spent years taking care of my friends, I am no martyr, and I am not trying to take any moral high ground here. I am simply trying to sort out the mess that I consider my relationship with booze.
I just finished my second year of graduate school, so I've got a master's degree now, and do you think that equates with being smarter about drinking? well, I shall hope so. I didn't drink much in grad school, I went out the first year with a friend, she'd drink, I'd go to dance. And yet, one night I did go out and get wasted...and I went to class while I was still drunk the next morning. And this year, I only went out a few nights and drank, but halloween, I drank, and then I walked back to my apartment through wet grass with no shoes on...was that stupid? of course. and did I not control my emotions? yup...cause that happens to me sometimes when I drink also. Did I go out one night and drink a lot of long islands, so I was definately passed my limit, and then go back to my apartment and decide to drink more? Yup, I remember doing that also.
Did I have a party at my parent's house last August for my birthday while they weren't home, and buy alcohol to serve my friends? yes. They are all over 21 btw Did I make sure those planning to drink stayed the night or had a DD? yes. Have I been out drinking, and had a pint of beer or a glass of wine with some friends to celebrate graduation, or catch up on old times? Yup and I walked home, or had a DD each time. Did I have some liquid courage in my system in order to finally tell someone I like them? yes, but I had a dd that night also. Did I have a shot bought by a friend, and a few margarittas one night? yup....did I get drunk, no. Did I have fun with my friends playing pool, yes. Did I go on a wine tour in Napa Valley, which meant I had a few glasses of wine, yup. But I didn't drive, and I had a great time socializing with my family.
So have I learned what responsible consumption of alcohol is? Perhaps. Did it come at a high price? Maybe, though maybe not as high a price as some of my other friends. And not as high a price as those that have died due to alcohol use, or the alcohol use of others.
So what have I gained from reading this book that is on the ny times bestsellers list? Well, I guess, in alot of ways, I'm like a good portion of the general population my age.

Thursday, June 15, 2006

P.S. Happy Birthday also to Casey and Ryan.

Wednesday, June 14, 2006

In between passing out resumes, begging for jobs with health benefits, and watching a TON of soccer games (YAY, for the last one at least). I stumbled upon this website, via the Musematic blog...and boy, it's a fun fun creative way to waste a little time. Andrew, this would be up your "right" brain alley, if you wanna take a break from all that science, moving, wedding partying etc.
Creative
Enjoy.

Also had a great weekend. Excited to see WICKED in Chicago on Sunday....pictures to follow soon..

Monday, June 12, 2006


Happy Birthday Erik!
(this is past due, as his birthday was actually on 06/08, but alas, blogger wasn't cooperating, and I was also quite busy after the initial 3 tries.

And yes, I did decorate the cookie cake.

Tuesday, June 06, 2006

Happy Birthday Maggie

My first phone interview for a library job is coming up! Wish me luck!

Monday, June 05, 2006

Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad!
Happy Birthday Steve!
Happy Birthday Will!

Friday, June 02, 2006

Happy Birthday Jon!
I heard a surprising and horrifying statistic just two days ago that I'm sure many of you are aware of, and maybe some of you are not. Regardless of whether or not you are aware of the statistic itself, more than likely you can put a name and a face of someone YOU actually KNOW with this statistic, even if you don't know they've had this type of experience, or maybe you can put your own name to it.
Perhaps it is just that I am, by nature, a very emotional and empathetic person, but, hearing these types of statistics does in deed make me want to mourn (and in fact, it did make me cry).
Statistics
Myths and Facts
So I urge you to do what you can to contribute to the efforts to combat these acts of violence.

Sunday, May 28, 2006

Update

Wine tour of the Napa Valley yesterday was a lot of fun. The combination of food, wine, painkillers, and coffee helped to combat the headache somewhat...oh ya, and the train was cool too. More excited today though - as I DON"T have a headache today..(yay) and we went to the palace of fine arts, and soon will go see some opera in the park right near Steve's place at the Moscone Center.
I've decided I don't care much for my new haircut. :( but, it'll grow back, so oh wellers.

If anybody else chuckled when the Cubs and Sox game involved an on base push and an on base punch, I chuckled with you. ESPN is awesome for game highlights.

Speaking of sports....WORLD CUP WORLD CUP WORLD CUP...
oh yea, folks in the IC area for the weekend of June 9-11th will have to tolerate me asking for score updates, and attempting to watch games at odd hours of the day. ;) Particularly if I can find a sports bar in the area that will broadcast them....either pull up a chair, grab a beer (for breakfast??) and join me, or allow me to be oblivious to your conversations while I watch...

okay, time to go see some opera singers...(and listen to them also)

Thursday, May 25, 2006

Random

because it appears to be making the blog rounds....

Accent: Midwestern? Iowan? (Is there such an accent? It isn't as obvious as "CHI-cao-go" or anything
Booze: Had a margaritta to celebrate finishing school on a Tuesday night. that's about as wild as I get anymore. (and I'm starting to like it that way)
Chore I Hate: Is there a chore i DON'T hate? Isn't that why they are called chores
Dog or Cat: Both - and yes I'll take care of yours when you are away. I've got references :)
Essential Electronics: the laptop - with wireless, the ipod, the cellphone,
Favorite Cologne(s): Nautica Latitude Longitude ---oh man, that stuff gets my senses all tingly
Gold or Silver: I wear both
Hagiography: Very important to the study of art history
Insomnia: oh yes, I am knowledgable in this area.
Job Title: "Assistant to the Director of Marketing Susan Winkler to the world of Library Professionals." - I know I'm not even good enough to be the director yet --you've got to start somewhere
Kids: are lovely when they belong to someone else
Living arrangements: at the moment, with my folks in a 4 bedroom house in Coralville, IA...maybe an apartment somewhere if I get a full-time job...
Most admirable trait: physical or personality wise? smile and usually my positive attitude (encouragement for others)
Number of sexual partners: "What is this, a physical?" --how about a change to :Number of Partners in Crime? (of the non-harmful variety hehe) ---cause I'm looking for some recruitment here...
Overnight hospital stays: ya..had this eye thing when I was a baby
Phobias: hmm, I"m sure I've got them
Quote: I have new ones pretty often
Religion: to each his/her own
Siblings: brother
Time I wake up: depends on the day
Unusual talent or skill: not that unusual - I can tie cherry stems in knots
Vegetable I refuse to eat: haven't met one I refuse to eat - though when iw as little "turnip greens" were great --dad's codeword for getting me to eat spinach - which i wouldn't eat otherwise.
Worst habit: I'm sometimes too excited about conversations, and interrupt people - -I'm working on it guys! I'm also too negative about myself --working on that one also...
X-rays: for my teeth and when i broke my collarbone..
Yummy foods I make: I make a mean french toast.
Zodiac sign: Leo- Lion, Meee-oww

Monday, May 22, 2006

What do I do with free time??

Greetings faithful viewers, readers, gawkers, movers and shakers. I am now back in IC, for a few days, until flying to San Fran for a few more days...then back here.

So, I've got some free time on my hands, while I search for a job (primary goal now that XML is finished.) So, much to your liking..a blog post counts as a use of free time.

I've watched alot of Wildfire. It's addictive, it's about racehorses, and it's fun to pick out what they mess up about horseracing (after all it IS a t.v. show)

I also got to visit Hilary in Waconda, IL and see the Lake County Discovery Museum (heh, kinda fun, though my health does seem to want to really co-operate these days)
did anyone else catch word that this is the highest pollen count season on record so far, in both Iowa and Indiana? (perhaps Illinois as well?) and moving from state to state hasn't helped my allergies settle down at all. Regardless, I've had a good few days visiting folks, and culturing myself up a little.

Now for the rest of my relaxation I will read some books --surprise --and download some classics on to the ipod from a casting site, to listen to on the plane.

I promised someone that I would actually try to do Alcatraz this time, so that's on the list, along with visiting the asian art museum, napa valley wine tour by train (with the rents) and hopefully enjoying a few days in California sun (do they have pollen there also??? I hope not)

Official graduation celebration starts tomorrow night - so feel free to send your congrats and such my way ---change from the sofa does count in my eyes also :)

in a related note --if anyone realizes they need to simplifiy their life of material possessions, even with sentimental value (and we know who we are) I think I shall write a book someday entitled "why don't you want to part with that croucheted blanket with the hideous orange and lime green flowers?" (the back cover of the book will then host the reply of "my grandmother made it!!") --it will be a self-help book about coming to terms with realizing that one person just cannot possibly hold on to every sentimental object/article of clothing given to them over the years --especially those of us in our mid-twenties moving around alot.
(*note to self: you probably have already defeated the purpose of your future book by continuing to possess scrapbooks full of birthday cards from ten years ago...*)

In a not so great coincidence, holding on to PHOTOGRAPHS should be paramount in all one's endeavors...especially when your laptop gets sent to the best buy service warehouse WITHOUT them backing up your files like you told them to...so those of you with CDS of images that i've made (over the last year..i.e. new years eve, misa/casey's visit...halloween, etc) might be kind enough to send me copies of those copies??/ that would be fab....because images on the computer - and slim-cased cds full of digital images take up very little space in homes of 20 somethings...:)

that is all for now...

Wednesday, May 03, 2006

Totally glad I've got internet via the apartment again. hooray!

Anyways, I must amend my previous post of the next few months adventures:
May 5th-7th (perhaps I'll be out of here on Sunday instead of Monday? (morning) ---Moving out of my apartment, and working at the FAL library
May 3rd - Rents come to B-town to help me move all of this junk home....
May 10th --driving back to B-twon for my weekend XML workshop.
May 11th --B-town/a day of reading for my workshop.
May 12-15 (morning) B-town for XML workshop
May 15 (afternoon)- May 17th --Itineret (splg?) dweller hopefully camping out in a guest bedroom in Chicagoland. :)
May17th(afternoon) --driving back to B-town for Pearl/CGI workshop. (May not actually have to take this class/workshop...awaiting word from SLIS)
May 18th-22 (morning) Pearl/CGI workshop - B-town. Or volunteering at the slide library at Indiana and helping with their new software programs etc...
may 22 (afternoon) drive back to Iowa City.
may 22-may 25 - iowa city (perhaps ---or perhaps not--haven't fully decided yet.)
may 26-may 31st -SAN FRAN to visit Steve and Victoria :)
june 1st - Iowa City
june weekend - will's party for birthdays of my AUgust bday boys. Will, Jon, Casey, Tom, (in spirit), Steve and Erik...wow, so many summer babies.
june 18th - WICKED in CHICAGO with lis and erik - woo hoo!!!
End of June - Officially graduate from Indiana University School of Library and Information Science (we hope)
july 4th ish - steve will be back in IC for a wedding - so hopefully will get to see him.
July --b-town a certain weekend for festivities
July 22nd-July 29th - family reunion at Lake Okoboji, Iowa.
August 2nd - my birthday (festivities to follow??)
August 11th - Lis's bday (festivities before hand??)
August 12th- beerfest in madison wisconsin.
and in between this time --looking for a job, searching for a job, job hunting, job finding, etc. The earlier Anybody wanna hire me? still stands.
I'll also be doing volunteer work - most likely at the Old Capital Museum, the Art Museum, Art Library or Slide Library at the U of Iowa. And perhaps a subing librarian at the public library??

okay, that is the updated list. Now I have to dismantle my futon and my coffee table.

toodles.
sus

Monday, May 01, 2006

HeritageCelebrity

While this is something I would have expected to find on Andrew's blog (ala dog curling) as a fun way to waste some time in the SLIS lab as an attendant...it's actually from Traci. This is no way makes it less valuable as a mechanism to eat up your time :)

http://www.myheritage.com/FP/Company/tryFaceRecognition.php

Sunday, April 30, 2006

Lamenting the Sick and other odds and ends

This may be the only post you guys get from me for awhile. Awhile being at least until i get my desktop hooked up to IU's network...stupid Get Connected CDs and RITS not being open over the weekend...I know I know, everybody needs weekends off. fair enough. I have just realized how dependant I am on the Internet for my news, reviews and updates from friends. How much I am dependant on email to communicate far and wide, and hello ---who needs access to ELLA to fix their earlier website constructions...I Do! I Do!
So, guess why i'm complaining. My Sony Viao laptop - my gorgeous little baby - being one of 2 children I have - the second being Bessie, my fantastic 2004 Civic - is in computer hospital. or rather, being shipped today to the Best Buy corporate service center. God Speed Viao. May you return to my home in Iowa city in one piece, and working. SOOO very nervous letting them send her away AND send her back to me in Iowa in three weeks or so...but what can I do? I won't be in Bloomington past May 21st, (except for one weekend in july) so ack!
This means I'll probably have to borrow a laptop from the family reserve --or rather, mom's old one which was my old one before I got Viao. at least I am fortunate enough to have a laptop to begin with, and one to use for backup to boot. (haha, okay, insert joke about "re"boot here if you so desire.) So, perhaps my desktop will work for the next few days - until the 8th when i return to IC. I hope so!

Other odds and ends:
Fixing pathfinders/syllabus has been halted due to lack of internet.

Thanks to Jill for hosting a great condo-warming in Verona. I had a fantastic time, and was so happy I was only minimally allergic to her wonderful kitties. One of which, Rayden (raven?) I didn't ask for clarification on that one-whoops cuddled up with me at night. Oh yea, she's awesome. Kept my feet warm and everything. Made me miss my kitty Scotty, who went to kitty heaven (or purgatory, I'm not sure which) September of 2004.

I find that I am cold a lot lately. Goosebumps seem to be permanent additions to my arms and legs these past months. Since I lost about 10 lbs in February. I guess what they say about fat as insulation is really true. (Don't to worry folks. The weight has stayed off due to healthy eating habbits and little exercies ---can't get the muscle back which weighs more...that will be remedied soon...)

My computer desk/shelf/stereo have found themselves a new home. YAY. Really nice girl as well.

Happy Birthday to Rena! Your fruit tart and spinach artichoke dip await.

Oh, and on the AFI front- watched Mr. Smith Goes to Washington last night (#29), and will be watching On the Waterfront (#8) with Traci tonight. Wells Media Services is kind to me.

That is all.

Friday, April 28, 2006

Deconstructing Da Vinci and other odds and ends

Okay okay, I know there is the "bandwagon" mentality about reading the Da Vinci Code.
So, if you haven't read it yet, embrace the hype and read it before the movie comes out on May 19th - a) because it's an entertaining read b) then you'll fully understand what's going on in the critical circles c)the book is likely to be ten times better than the movie --that is usually the case --though i shall reserve final judgment until after seeing the film.)
I also know there is a lot of negative talk about the book via the art historical field. (This is usually the case with a work of "fiction" that presents itself as "fact" with a tiny disclaimer.) This happened to a certain extent -at least at my own undergrad institution with books like Girl With the Pearl Earring etc. So, get on board folks. and if you want you can read Holy Blood, Holy Grail also and support those cats. Mostly because they just suffered defeat in their legal battle over copyright. You can read about that almost anywhere, and I'm too lazy to post links right now - but check out the NYT for articles about it.
allrighty, that's the post for today. I"m done w. school for two weeks,
and what have I done with my time? I validated my pathfinders from L524 and Hummanities to xhtml standards. (which took almost an hour each) I am going to revamp the pages also because they are sooo boring right now, and now that i know CSS, I can make them better from a design standpoint. I also started a website for my family - so that we can all share pictures and the latest news and new addresses...this will at least hopefully work for the younger "millenial" generation. And everyone else will at least know when addresses have been updated. I've written thank you notes for my scholarship (yay!) and a thank you note for grandma.

So, my plans for the next few months:
May 5th-8th(morning) ---Moving out of my apartment, and working at the FAL library
May 8th (afternoon)-10th--Iowa City (to see above all else the FRIENDS and FAMILY - duh!)
May 11th --driving back to B-twon for my weekend XML workshop.
May 12-15 (morning) B-town for XML workshop
May 15 (afternoon)- May 17th --Itineret (splg?) dweller hopefully camping out in a guest bedroom in Chicagoland. :)
May17th(afternoon) --driving back to B-town for Pearl/CGI workshop.
May 18th-22 (morning) Pearl/CGI workshop - B-town.
may 22 (afternoon) drive back to Iowa City.
may 22-may 26 - iowa city
may 26-may 31st -SAN FRAN to visit Steve and Victoria :):)
june 1st - Iowa City
june 18th - WICKED in CHICAGO with lis and erik - woo hoo!!!
july --b-town a certain weekend for festivities
august - graduation from SLIS
august 12th- beerfest in madison wisconsin.
and in the time in between looking for a job ---anybody wanna hire me?

Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Correction: Google has taken down the latest logo - for Juan Miro's birthday. Read here. And here.

Wednesday, April 19, 2006

Artsy Altered Logos and Images

google
All right, I realize as an "almost" librarian/current SLIS student, I can find merits with Google and the Google Empire, even though - technically many in the library field think that Google will be the death of all good search strategies and give all people the option of mis-information. Not to mention the fascination with "self-googlization." And yes, I have done this and periodically check to see what's new with Susan Winkler, the big and important pharmacist.

That being said, there are some very cool things in the works as part of the Google Empire. Picassa being one of the neater downloadable image management software programs. And, okay, sort of off the main stream - how about all those awesome logos they come up with for holidays and special events?


I can forsee a book entering the Fine Arts library in the future, where artists and marketing majors will study the variations of the Google logo in the same manner that people circulate the many derivations on Grant Wood's American Gothic.

Just take a look at some of these greats.

And the fan logos are nice also. Though mine would be a bumpersticker saying "I want Google to bare my children"

On a semi-related note...a recent contest challenged users of Photoshop to alter famous images in some recognizable way, without ruining the integrity of the piece. Sort of artist's highbrow/lowbrow version of "What's Wrong with this Picture"
Sponsored by Worth1000.com I find it a particularly fun (and challenging) assessment of masterpieces and works I've never seen before...even with an Art History BA. Take a look see for yourself.

Sunday, April 16, 2006

Destruction in my Hometown

My hometown of Iowa City, Iowa was hit by two F2 tornadoes on Thursday night. I wasn't planning to head home for the Easter holiday - and when I'd called my mom to mkae sure they were okay, she said "You know, you were surely invited to come home if you wanted." I may have done so, and been in IC on Thursday night, if I wasn't already traveling elsewheres. It was hard not to get a bit emotional when I was trying to get the most current updates via the Internet into the morning hours on Friday. The images are pretty intense, of overturned cars, buildings without roofs, places I've visited many times over my years are no longer existing. But, the picture I've just painted in your minds may be quite bleak, and actually Iowa City and its residents were tremendously lucky. There were only minor injuries reported, and one death south of the city due to another tornado. My heart goes out to the family and relatives of that woman. Most of the people that I know didn't suffer any damage or injuries at all, though a former boss did have her car crushed and roof blown off, and friends of other people I know had damage to their cars as well. It makes me wish I was back in Iowa City this week though, so that I could help with the clean-up efforts and pitch in where people need help, either by volunteering with the Red Cross for the relief efforts or something else. I'll be back there in a few weeks though - and then I can do just that.

Wednesday, April 12, 2006

Perhaps it's simply because the sun has started to shine more often over the rolling hills of Southern Indiana, or perhaps it's because it is almost the end of the semester, and I should be totally stressed, but I'm not. For some weird reason I've found a contentment that I haven't felt in a very long while. I feel really good about helping my friend's mom with her website (crossing International waters and language barriers to make it happen). I feel pretty excited about some possible prospects for me when I return to Iowa City as far as potential job ops. And I've been able to contribute to some really interesting "cutting edge" type research here at IU recently. Thanks to some classroom knowledge and practical application of such.
That is perhaps what I've been waiting for while here at SLIS. The melding of my theoretical school and the practical usefulness of what I've learned about. Hopefully things will pan out with this experiement.

On other fronts, if you look for me this weekend, you should look out of town, and if you look for me next weekend, you should do the same. I'm doing some roadtripping...and as long as I've got wireless access where I'm at, everything will still get done.

So yup, that's the update.

Friday, April 07, 2006

Misa visits today, Casey visits tomorrow. much to do much to do, but, happy to have ppl coming to visit yay!!! Sites to finish....anybody really understand CSS positioning? I seem to have positioned myself out of the loop on that, in both the relative and absolute sense, so I'm off to ask the professor why I can't float images in the proper spots...

have a good weekend all!

Tuesday, April 04, 2006

Been tryin out some new "blog enhancements" lately. We'll see if they work.

Wednesday, March 22, 2006

Revisiting a Quiz from 2004

Listening to: Andrew W.K. ( and no this is not andrew from Slis - but I realize same initials - freaky)

Name: Sus
Birthplace:Coralville IA
Current Location: Bloomington, IN
Eye Color: blue
Hair Color: blond, soon to have toffee colored lowlights
Height: 5'4'"
Righty or Lefty: right - but i can write my name in a first grade like manner with my left
Zodiac Sign:Leo
Your Heritage: I recently learned I’m only 1/16th Irish. The rest of me is: German, English, Welsh, Norwegian, Dutch
The Shoes You Wore Today: (my duck slippersocks don’t count do they?) boots
Your Weakness: I internalize too much, at times, I’m a push-over
Your Fears: public speaking, that I’ll walk into a test and the questions will be in Russian, but I know all about the paintings, but I don’t know Russian (and the responses have to be in Russian also)
Your Perfect Pizza: sausage or taco (with lots of garlic sauce)
One Thing You'll Achieve: By the end of “aught-six” I’ll have a master’s degree in Library Science (or at least should)
What is your most overused phrase?: I overuse A LOT of words, A LOT of the time. A LOT.
Your first thoughts waking up: oh man, is it 7 am already?
The first feature you notice in the opposite sex: physical would be eyes, personality-wise: sense of humor
Your Best Physical Features: I would say my smile, others may disagree though….
Your Bedtime: lately it has been erratic. Anywhere from midnight until 4 am
Greatest Fear: Did we cover this one already? People will forget me.
Your Most Missed Memory: I don’t miss memories, I love re-living them.
Pepsi or Coke: Sprite or 7up please
McDonalds or Burger King: Fazzolis.
Single or Group Dates: both can be quite fun!
Adidas or Nike: both
Chocolate or Vanilla: twist ‘em
Cappucino or Coffee: coffee
Boxers or Briefs: boxers
Do you smoke?: no, I'm allergic
Cuss: ya, probably too much
Sing Well?: well, I sing. nothing to write home about though.
Do you think you've been in love?: I believe so, but to my way of thinking you can be “in love” and not have the other person return the same feelings. The best is when both of you are in love with each other though
Want to go to college? Again? At this point I’d say, HELL NO. But then, I’ve got another graduate degree looming in my future.
Liked High school? For the most part
Want to get married: perhaps I tell people “if or when I get married”
Type with fingers on the right keys? I type correctly according to the “standard” I learned in 8th grade
Get motion sickness?: no, and thank goodness, cause I like rollercoasters now.
Think you're attractive?: I think I love that other people boost my ego by finding things attractive about me. I do like my smile though.
Health freak?: I work out, I eat junk food...does that put me in the middle?
Get along with parents?: yes, pretty much all the time, and I love them very much
Like Thunderstorms?: if I'm not driving or photographing lightning then yes I love em
In The Past Month, have you?:
Consumed alcohol?:yes, a beer at Lennies for St. Patrick’s Day
Made out: with an absolutely wonderful guy
Gone on a date: with an absolutely wonderful guy
Gone to the mall: yes, was there yesterday
Dyed your hair: planning to do so next week
Stolen anything? I don’t believe so
Age you hope to be married?: You want an age? jeesh, that’s demanding
Number and names of Children?: I'm undecided, if kids enter my life I’ll most likely adopt but I do like the name Catalina
Describe your dream wedding: yikes...many questions about my future here. As long as the families and friends are there, that's dream enough
How do you want to die?: not sure…
What college?: UI and IU - I realize now that dyslexia is a descriptor for reading disorders..thanks 524
Career: future (ART) Librarian, right now, SLIS student
Most like to visit?: Eastern Europe, Japan, Austrailia/New Zealand, Western Europe, South America, Africa, pretty much anywhere someone is either willing to go with me to, will meet me there, or will let me come visit them at.
What are you doing right now: avoiding a take home test
What was the last thing you did: yawned
What is right next to you?: pillows and a coffee table
If you were a toy, what would you be?: a board game. (perhaps catchphrase or apples to apples)
Where do you want to go on your honeymoon?: see answer to where to travel
Who do you want to spend the rest of your life with?: someone that wants to spend theirs with me
Last person on phone with?: Erik
Last person that IMed you?: mom
Last person you IMed?: mom
What's your ring tone?: The Muppet Show
Do you wear contacts?: no, I have glasses for seeing far away though, (ie. slides in art history classes and movies, and driving at night)
School? Indiana University
Vehicle? 2004 Honda Civic Bessie
Ever won a special award?: all awards are special...I've gotten a few
Last film you saw at the cinema?: 16 Blocks with my brother
Did you actually watch it?: yup
Are you too shy to ask anyone out: I wasn’t too shy after roughly a bottle and a half of wine
If you could change your name to anything, what would it be: eh. I'm happy with it.
Scary or funny movies?: both
Christmas or Easter?: they are both important
Lust or Love?: isn’t it best if they go together?
Kisses or Hugs?: yes please :)
What color is your toothbrush?: um....I dont usually pay attention to the color, I'll raincheck that one.
Roller Coaster: Scary or exciting?: Both. I'm weird. I get nervous before new ones and I scream the whole way through with my eyes closed and my hands clenched. But the second time through I scream and let go and love them
How many times do you let the phone ring before you answer it?: depends on its location relative to me...(i.e. is it under clothing or furniture?)
If you could meet one person dead or alive, who would it be?: just one?
Day or night?: both, depending on my mood
Summer or Winter: neither - Fall
Silver or Gold: I like white gold best
Diamonds or pearls: probl diamonds
Sunrise of Sunet? both can be beautiful
Have you ever broken a bone?: collarbone
Who do you hate?: it’s a short list. Only one person I’d really care to do physical harm to.